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Post by upnorth on Nov 30, 2008 0:40:13 GMT 10
Yah, I hope it's a good weekend Bonnie.....
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Post by Ms B. on Dec 10, 2008 20:56:36 GMT 10
I've been umming and ahing about the wisdom of posting this post I'm about to post (how many times can you say post in a sentence?) because I don't want to talk about it or be reminded of it or be asked if I'm ok, what happened or be pitied etc. That and I want to avoid questions about that person, even if it's along the lines of asking me how he is going. I hope that doesn't sound bitchy (it doesn't sound too bitchy does it? I don't want to offend people) and I know all the comments and stuff I've received thus are only being given with good intent but I'm fine. I'm dealing with it and I don't want to be constantly reminded of it because apart from being uncomfortable with these things to begin with (affection, sharing) it's kind of starting to drive me a bit nuts. So it might not seem like a smart thing to be posting about it if I don't want to talk about it or even acknowledge it publicly but I figure it's like ripping off a bandaid or something. Get the bloody thing over and done with. Plus it might explain my sporadic posting behaviour (if it's worse then usual) on top of lack of spoons and if I have even more abrupt, curt, blunt replies then normal. Unfortunately I've been getting the energy to go on here and then I get over it half way through or too tired and just want to go stick my head in a book. Anyway, I ended my relationship a few days ago (for those that didn't know I was engaged), I'm fine, we're still friends, it's all good. I'm going to go read now... I will still be at the next chat though
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susana
My Second Home
If I can build a bridge to somewhere, its better than a fast train to nowhere.
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Post by susana on Dec 12, 2008 9:09:09 GMT 10
Good Evening, Bonbon. Lots of hugs & atta-gals to you. I'm so glad you let us know what has been going on, 'cos obviously you weren't yourself, & seemed so stressed & on-edge. You're like me- - a very strong person, & of course you will get through this. Kudos to you for knowing you needed out & ending it, not clinging & wailing & trying to change someone to the detriment of you, the other person, & everyone in your life. I recall in Sunday School, during my high school years, a girl said everytime she went through something difficult, her mother would say, "It's okay, Dear, we're just building character." And Lorene would say, " But MOM!!! Don't we have ENOUGH character yet???!!!" There was a time when I would have shielded my children (& husband) from any painful or difficult situations, would have even taken on their emotional or physical pain myself if it could lessen theirs. Then finally at some point it sunk in that whenever I had been through times like that myself was when I would learn the most valuable lessons & experience the most growth. So if I would deny them those same valleys & cold, dark, thirsty, scared times along the path, I would also deny them the growth & learned wisdom that has been so important personally in my life. So may the Light of the Holiday Season shine upon you, & may you find true, awesome joy in even the smallest of things. You don't need any sympathy. We're with you, precious one.
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Post by Ms B. on Jan 29, 2009 9:28:23 GMT 10
I'd like to apologise for being a slack arse lately And I'd like to warn everyone that I may be unreliable for a little bit longer... I kinda had a big social weekend, by ME standards, so I'm still recovering. Add onto that an addictive video game and I'm pretty much in bed more so then usual So I'm popping online today to make sure everything is ok, try and catch up with some posts and then probably come back in a couple of days and check everything again. So if there is any problems, you need me for anything send me a pm and I'll get to it as soon as I can
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Post by Fae kitty on Jan 29, 2009 10:03:59 GMT 10
Hope it doesn't take you long to recover from it all Bon
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Post by upnorth on Jan 30, 2009 0:04:16 GMT 10
Sorry You're having a rough week Bonnie, that sucks. Don't worry about us too much. Infact, I haven't been on here much lately either because I've been busy (by M.E. standards). Hope you improve quickly.
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Post by Ms B. on Jan 30, 2009 11:11:40 GMT 10
Thanks guys I'm getting there slowly, but I'm starting to feel a difference now so it's all good. This heat doesn't help though
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susana
My Second Home
If I can build a bridge to somewhere, its better than a fast train to nowhere.
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Post by susana on Feb 1, 2009 8:15:15 GMT 10
Wish I could send you some of our COLDness. Warmer today, in the 50's, but a couple days ago, we actually had a little snow. Well, it was snow by OUR standards anyway, which depending on who is reporting it, can include everything down to little floating particles of mist that feel really cold, though invisible to the naked eye!!! In this case, the smart-arse weatherman was quick to point out that what looked & felt like snow wasn't. He says was freezing fog, which transpires near the ground & crunches underfoot. They even coined a new name for it- - FROG. Never mind my new name for THEM.
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Post by Fae kitty on Feb 1, 2009 11:42:16 GMT 10
They even coined a new name for it- - FROG. Never mind my new name for THEM. ;D
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Post by Ms B. on Feb 1, 2009 13:57:46 GMT 10
;D Susana.
It's cooler here today luckily so we're getting a nice break. Hopefully it'll be like this for a few more days.
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Post by ArgyrosfeniX on Feb 1, 2009 17:39:13 GMT 10
Hang in there Bons!!
Hope to see you at the chat tonight (hoping to be there myself. - We'll see...)
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Post by Ms B. on Feb 2, 2009 10:18:56 GMT 10
Will do Argy I'm awake today! Awake! Maybe a little bit and at the chat session right now, although it keeps lagging I'm doing two things at once! I'm getting there...
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Post by Ms B. on Feb 17, 2009 11:18:05 GMT 10
Sorry I haven't been online much lately the last week, as per usual really now hey?
I'm still popping on when I can just not overly active and probably only post to the smaller things, not big posts, for now at least (but I'm still reading everyone's posts)
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Post by Ms B. on Apr 2, 2009 10:24:32 GMT 10
I just wanted to let everyone know I'm going to be unavailable for about a week (I say a week just to be on the safe side) because I have several visitors and I have no idea how my health will cope with several... I'm having a whole bunch of family members over who I haven't seen in yonks and I'm kinda scared but sort of looking forward to it So I will be unavailable but if you do have any problems at all please pm me or email me and I will try to pop in and check my emails at least a few times. I won't be online for the chat sessions but I'll pop in to announce the MOTM.
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Post by Ms B. on Apr 8, 2009 9:18:33 GMT 10
Hey guys, I'm back. Sort of. Sporadically. Semi? Anyway I'm online enough to warrant being back in an official admin capacity sort of way. If that makes any sense...
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